On grief nesting

A strawberry to get you through tough times.

I have been grief nesting. Anger cleaning and sorrow cheese-making. Despair canning. Trying to enter the circle of passing on gifts, heartbreak jam, because the stories coming out of Portland about three men and the young women they were compelled to protect from hatred have shaken me at my core. Here’s the thing about stories. You […]

Want to start a world holiday? PART 1

Start with why people should care.

In just a few weeks I will celebrate the world holiday I created, World Tessellation Day. Actually, that’s wrong. I had the crazy idea to start a world holiday around interlocking tiled mosaic patterns, but it was a couple hundred people, many of them fantastically creative math play advocates, who made it happen and who […]

Kim Cooper Findling knows all the places

Bend before the greatness of Central Oregon's loveliest travel writer

You’ve been to Bend, yadda yadda, you’ve done the things. Well, sort of. Maybe you keep going back to Lava Lands every year (I know I do), or your annual pilgrimage to Todd Lake feels like a homecoming you’ve been there so much. That’s all fine and good, but you haven’t tapped out of the […]

You can’t do big creative projects alone

Why you need to get on board with the idea of shared creativity.

I need to tell you about the Garden of Gentle Breeze. A couple years ago, I got it in my head that I wanted to stay overnight in a garden. Surely there was some kind of Airbnb or garden property I could rent for the night for a couple’s getaway. Creative googling gets me very […]

The best guide to Oregon Wine Country has four legs

I’ve lived in the capital of Oregon wine country, McMinnville, Ore., for five years and have been a travel writer all that time, but I’ve never experienced something as life-shifting as being up in the Red Hills on a horse. It is, without a doubt, the best way to go wine tasting.

Unless you’re afraid of horses. If that’s the case, don’t do it 🙂

You can read about wine tasting and and horseback riding in my latest Tiny Travels column here.

 

The Good Grief Chair: How to perform a Furniture Exorcism

Even if you got it at that funeral home estate sale.

If you’re anything like me, you see an ad for a funeral parlor estate sale and say: SCORE! But there is so much wrong with taking dead weight home with you, in furniture or otherwise. So bear with me while I explain how one little orange chair became the bane of my existence and started […]

Every couple needs a city that is all their own

The trick is to never, ever (truly, don't do it!) take your kids there.

So here’s a bit of travel wisdom every couple should keep in mind. If you have decided that a place is YOUR place, you’ve said ad nauseum that you’ll never take your kids there, then maybe perhaps probably don’t take your kids there to write a travel story. I did just that the other week […]

How to use two sentences to focus your memoir

Work small before you work big.

I’ve been giving talks around the Pacific Northwest for the past year about how to structure a memoir. It’s a beast every writer attempting the form must grapple with. Where do I even start? How do I take the dramatic moments where everything changed for me and place them within a structure that’s compelling for […]

Jessica Abel’s Growing Gills is the book on creativity that we needed

Why my favorite creativity coach isn't a writer, but a cartoonist.

No one has done more for my creative practice in the last year and a half than Jessica Abel. A well-established cartoonist who has made a turn to blogging and writing about creativity, she has walked the walk (or swam the deep ocean, to stick with a metaphor more in line with her book’s title) […]